crushing...badly
so remember when i told you i had a crush on my friend DC...well i can't decide if its getting better or worse. the thing is i saw him on friday night and ended up following him home and going back to his house (we were both ever so slightly drunk and he didn't want me driving home alone)...so we're talking in his bedroom and i started getting cold so i asked him if it was alright if i put my feet under his covers....
so i was sitting there and then he lay down next to me and we started chatting and i asked him if i had been flirting with him during the night - and yes, i had been. oh tsk tsk tsk! he then told me that he is very attracted to me and thinks i am the perfect type of girl because of all my qualities...go me!!!! it turns out that he told my other friend that he 'would love to be with me' but is scared of ruining the friendship we have.
ended up falling asleep in his bed and woke up to find our bodies meshed up right close and practically spooning...nothing happened between us because we both agreed that it would make things awkward but where does this leave me?
he still flirts with me whenever i see him so tell me, what do i do?????
so i was sitting there and then he lay down next to me and we started chatting and i asked him if i had been flirting with him during the night - and yes, i had been. oh tsk tsk tsk! he then told me that he is very attracted to me and thinks i am the perfect type of girl because of all my qualities...go me!!!! it turns out that he told my other friend that he 'would love to be with me' but is scared of ruining the friendship we have.
ended up falling asleep in his bed and woke up to find our bodies meshed up right close and practically spooning...nothing happened between us because we both agreed that it would make things awkward but where does this leave me?
he still flirts with me whenever i see him so tell me, what do i do?????
posted by TwoFlower at 11:41 AM
10 Comments:
You have to go for it. Otherwise you'll always wonder what it could have been like. And what if it turns out to be awesome?
And if it turns out bad, you'll make new friends :)
well said phoenix, my comment was along those lines. additionally - it seems that at this stage that your friendship would take major strain if either of you hooked up with someone else.
it's definately worth a go.
Hmmm... babes sometimes the best relationships started out as friends first?!
I can't outright say "go for it" but I think if next time you're in this situation - don't fight it so hard! Go with the flow!
G'Luck princess!
absolutely - go for it! if i think back to all the guys i never had anything with because of friendship - i can count maybe 2 that i've remained friends with over the years anyway! someone you already have that friendship and respect with - what a bonus!!!
I have no idea what advice to give you, but I found the comments very interesting.
It's pretty much been said already but...
Isn't the ideal for a relationship to start out as a friendship?
Just take it slow and see where it leads and how right it feels.
Godd luck and have fun!
good advice everyone but i reckon i shall play it cool and see if he does anything first...? call me a chicken! ha ha!
ok u need to prioritise here. if u continue to be frenz with him the flirting has to STOP.
and if u go 4 it, u need to promise each other that the minute u 2 feel that things arnt workin out u need to tell each other so atleast u could salvage ur friendship from that,
though i think friends that u know and trust make great relationships happen..
u just needs to wheigh up all the pros and cons bout the situation then decide.
Its a tough TF, i was in the same situation with my best friend. We were really tight since std 8... he went overseas 4 2 years, i went 4 Varsity and when we got back together it was like. Wow, as though he nevber left.
that holiday we got together. i was so torn, afraid to take that step cause of our friendship but so glad i did. We have been together eva since 4 years now and its awesome, best friend and lover... ;)
so id go with it and see where it leads, u might find something amazing!!
HMM, I don't know... it's critical, I mean, I think I would go for it! Somehow I know that if it didn't work out, I could find a way to make it cool between the two of us. So if you guys are god friends, then if it doens't work out, you can talk about it. and It doens't have to be ackward.
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